2. Dont bleed. During the Revolutionary War, British soldiers were called
"Redcoats" or "Lobster Backs" because they wore red jackets. One
reason for this, apparently, was to hide the blood of soldiers who were wounded. This
instilled fear in the enemy, who faced rank after rank of steadily advancing British
troops seemingly invulnerable to musket fire. It also raised the confidence of the British
soldiers, for much the same reason.
This went double for officers, who, in the British tradition, cultivated an air of
unflappability and were expected to carry on in the face of calamity as if nothing had
happened. The sight of a wounded officer calmly giving orders inspired confidence and
courage.
Remember, officers cannot bleed. If your attitude is "Yeah, I took a bullet, but
that doesnt matter, because were going to win," then people will look to
you for guidance during tough economic times. Describe the situation as you see it, then
drop it, except for discussions on how to overcome it.
Acknowledging that times are tough or that things arent going quite as well as
planned is just good business sense. On the other hand, showing panic or fear
bleeding all over the floor, as it were is a good way to convince employees that
all is lost. If you show confidence, they will feel more confident that their efforts will
bear fruit.
3. Use positive words. Words do more than just carry meaning they elicit
sensations, physical responses, memories, associations, and emotions. People respond more
strongly to some words than to others. For example, when you read or hear the word
"apple," you "see" the familiar red fruit in your mind and perhaps
picture yourself biting into a sweet, crunchy, red apple. At the same time, without any
conscious effort on your part, your subconscious initiates an involuntary response: your
mouth begins to water.
What is the significance of this sequence of events? It shows us that the subconscious
mind accepts messages immediately and unconditionally, then prepares the conscious mind
and the body to act in accordance with the received message. The subconscious, however, is
unable to distinguish between positive and negative words; it responds only to the image
it holds. So if you say to somebody, "Dont let the economy get you down,"
that persons subconscious mind hears, "Let the economy get you down." You
see, the subconscious mind acts only on the central idea represented by the words, rather
than on whether or not these words are preceded by the word "dont." Thus,
even an offhand remark can have a debilitating effect on your efforts to motivate others.
Even though your intention might be positive, the way you word your message can have a
negative impact on your listeners subconscious.
To increase peoples motivation in hard economic times, state your message in
positive terms. Instead of saying, "Dont let your customers pessimism get
you down," say, "Although the economys in a turmoil right now, you can
still persuade your customers to buy." By stating things in positive terms, you make
it less likely that your listener will subconsciously accept only the part of the message
that comes after "dont" and end up discouraged, unmotivated, and
unproductive.
About the Author
Tom Connellan is a keynote speaker who specializes in customer loyalty and leadership practices. Companies like Lockheed Martin, General Electric, Bank of America and Motorola are among his clients. Consider Tom as a keynote speaker for your next meeting.